dont be selfish. you want other to spare a thought for you, then you must do the same thing. sometime, u may hurt the one u have loved most. yet, you still did not notice it. put yourself in other people shoe. dun expect too much from others. coz what they have done for you is at their best already. sometime, it may be disheartening, but this is the truth. what they say abt you may not be what they think abt you. this is not their fault. coz they are the one who know you the most. they have the authority. they have the right. so, when they start to drift away from you. be alert. catch them back. back to you. coz u might lost something, a thing that might be more important than your own life, when u just let them go.